Jana's Once Upon a Family Blog

Monday, March 13, 2006

Key #5: Developing a Family History

Families develop their history through stories, keepsakes, etc. They are interested in their heritage and often create family trees, interview older family members, and treasure keepsakes from distant relatives. They keep journals and write down the wonderful “family stories” that get passed down through the generations.

Examples: the Family Tree Poster & Leaves, the Family Tree Booklets, and the Leather Family Journal

Key #4: Creating a Strong Sense of Family Identity, Rich in Traditions

The rituals and traditions families create, and pass on, help them feel unique as a family and connected to each other. The sillier, and more unusual, the better. “This is who we are…this is how we do things… this is how we celebrate birthdays, the Fourth of July, Mother’s Day, etc.

Examples: the Birthday Book, and The Holiday Traditions Books & Sacks

Key #3: Stay close to Family and Friends

Families stay close to family and friends that live far away. They don’t let distance and time erode their bonds. They find ways to stay connected and enrich their relationships. They will make sacrifices, like driving through snowstorms, to get together and support each other, especially in hard times.

Examples: Letters from Grandma Set, Love by the Month Envelopes

Key #2: Showing Love and Appreciation

Families show love and appreciation for each other, in many ways. They learn to be comfortable communicating their affection and giving each other “gifts of love” often. No one, no matter how old they are, ever grows out of the need to feel loved and appreciated.

Examples: The Dear Sweet Child Letter Box, and Wood-Patterned Love Box, or the Love Journal

Key #1 Creating a Sense of Belonging

Key #1 Creating a Sense of Belonging

Families who make family a priority, create a sense of belonging. They plan time for family activities and events, and expect that time. Family members are expected to participate and made to feel they are an important part of the family unit.

Examples: the Family Memory Board and the Leather Family Album

Friday, March 03, 2006

Will your family always look forward to the holidays?

Try our “Conversation Starters” and make every dinnertime a chance to connect.

The dinner table is the perfect place to have those meaningful conversations that connect us. Cut out these 6 “Conversation Starters”, put them in a box, draw one at each family dinner and enjoy the wonderful discussion that is sure to follow.

  • If you had 2 wishes, what you wish for and why?
  • Is it ever OK to lie?
  • If someone gave you $1,000,000 what would you do with it?
  • What persoanility trait has gotten you in the most trouble?
  • What do you like most about yourself
  • What would you do if you were invisible for a day?